Give Better Context.
Get Better Dates.
Our AI is brilliant, but it's not a mind reader (yet). Follow this guide to turn your AI coach into your personal secret weapon. Note that at the moment, this feature is only available on this website. It will come out to the iOS app soon!
Set Your Identity
By default, the AI plays it safe. When you specify your sex and who you are looking to meet, the AI adapts its tone, social nuances, and advice style instantly.
Go to SettingsDefine Your Goal
Casual Dating
Focus on fun, texting game, and lightweight vibes.
Serious Relationship
Focus on values, long-term compatibility, and depth.
Self-Improvement
Focus on social anxiety, listening, and confidence.
Update this in your Dashboard to change the daily advice you receive!
Master the "Pro Prompt"
"I have a date tonight and I'm nervous. What should I do?"
"I have a first date tonight at a loud bar. I'm worried about keeping the conversation flowing without making it feel like an interview. Any advice on flirting in this setting?"
Mention if it's a 1st, 3rd, or 10th date.
Specify the location (Coffee shop vs. Gala).
Share your specific fear (Awkward silences, physical touch, etc).
Paste a snippet of a text (with names blurred!) for context.
Upgrade Your Dating Intelligence
Free Tier
- Standard Context Window
- Max 1 Saved Conversation
- Basic Daily Advice
- Limited Trial: Flirt & Date Simulators
Premium Tier
- 2x Larger Token Input (Send long texts!)
- Unlimited Conversation History
- Deep Relationship Deep-Dives
- Smarter Responses
- Screenshot Analysis
- And More!